It’s better to just keep personal matters and relationship details private to keep the nosy people away. It’s just that there are lots of snoopy “feeling-close” peeps you wouldn’t want to associate with.
Someone who hates you usually hates you for 3 reasons:
1. They see you as a threat,
2. They hate themselves ’cause they wanna be like you,
3. or YOU have that attitude problem that nobody could ever stand.
Okay, just a funny thing. If you do not speak in English all the time, most people will assume that you can’t speak that language at all and that you are indeed stupid. Surprisingly, some Filipinos think that way. For me, that mentality’s the most stupid thing ever.
But if you’re a Filipino living in the Philippines and you can’t speak Tagalog, and I say that you’re stupid, almost everyone will throw rocks at me and tell me that I am stupid for even saying that. No wonder why foreigners laugh at this country, it’s because of its own citizens who do not love their very own language. Sad.
If a guy says:
“I like you but (put explanation here)…..”
What it means:
“I am not really that into you. Sorry, but I just said the words “I like you” so as not to hurt your feelings and ego that much.”
If he really likes you, there are NO excuses. 🙂
I’m not mean or heartless. I’m simply just stating the simple harsh truths that I have observed in life. Just because it’s the truth does not always mean that we have to like it and just because we like an idea doesn’t always mean that it’s the truth. Ikut-ikutin mo man ang mundo, ang totoo at mananatiling totoo at wala ka ng magagawa pa. Just saying. 😉
Physical beauty matters, yes it does. Why would God bother in giving you a physical body if it doesn’t? Although it is not the only thing that’s important, you can’t deny that it is still. So, do your job and take good care of your body and look the best that you can be. Relying on inner beauty alone is not an excuse for laziness.
Someone who chooses to resist temptation because he has self-preservation is better and more trustworthy than someone who screws every hot girls who come his way just because he can.